You, Me & Her. The screenplay by Selina Ringel takes the serious topics of an unhappy marriage, sexual identity crisis and love and turns it into a mildly engaging and breezy, but sugarcoated and contrived romantic comedy without any surprises or depth. From the get-go, it's clear that Mags and Ash, who've been married for a decade, have deep-rooted issues that could be affecting their marriage systemically. Instead of going to couples therapy, they take a vacation at a resort in Mexico where they meet swingers and, eventually, Angela. Soon enough, Mags and Angela share a kiss and sleep with each other which leads to Mags questioning her sexuality and the possibility of opening up her marriage in hope of saving it. What she and Angela don't realize nor does the film itself even acknowledge is that polyamory isn't designed to fix marital problems nor can it work if the husband and wife have issues that go beyond lack of sex and intimacy. Ash, as it turns out, isn't transparent with Mags about his financial problems; she has to find that out from someone else, so he had lied to her through omission. What else is he lying to her about?
      Unfortunately, You, Me & Her doesn't let any of the characters breathe to show a window into their heart, mind and soul. It's never a good sign when you can feel the wheels of the screenplay turning, especially with a contrivance like when Angela shows up out of the blue after ghosting Mags. Angela remains an underwritten character despite being the most interesting one, so it's a shame that the screenplay doesn't give her enough of a backstory which dehumanizes her in a way. It seems as though the film were too afraid to look at its provocative, relatable topics more unflinchingly. French director Eric Rohmer would've probably made a more tender, cerebral and deeper version of this story. You, Me & Her would be an interesting double feature with Doris Dörrie's bolder, smarter and funnier marital sex farce, Men.... At 1 hour and 34 minutes, You, Me & Her, directed by Dan Levy Dagerman, opens in select theaters nationwide via Attend.
Number of times I checked my watch: 2